matrescence   coaching

Do you feel like you’ve lost a part of yourself since becoming a mother?

Why does nobody talk about how hard it is to feel like yourself again after having a baby?

What if motherhood didn’t mean giving yourself up, but becoming more fully you, with the support you deserve?

Motherhood is beautiful, but it’s also messy, overwhelming, and full of change.

It’s not just about your baby, it’s about you too.

I’m Anca, a certified matrescence coach. I help women navigate the emotional, physical, and identity shifts of motherhood—so you can feel grounded, confident, and connected to yourself in this new chapter.

Does this sound like you?

  • You love your baby, but you sometimes miss the version of yourself you used to be.

  • You feel stretched thin, trying to meet everyone’s needs while losing track of your own.

  • You long for clarity, emotional balance and a sense of self again.

  • You don’t just want to “cope”, you want to thrive.

If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. And you don’t have to go through it alone.

I only open a few new coaching spots each season, so I can be fully present for each mama.

What do my clients say?

  • “I thought I just needed to get more organised. But what I really needed was someone to help me find myself again. Coaching with Anca felt like coming home to parts of me I didn’t even realise I’d lost.”

    L, expat mom, The Netherlands

  • "I used to think this ‘baby-blues’ was just part of the deal. But our sessions gave me language, clarity and confidence. I can now show up for my family and for myself without guilt."

    M, mom of twins, Amsterdam

  • “I finally stopped just surviving. I started showing up as myself again and that changed everything.”

    S, mom of two, Romania

  • My coaching experience was transformative. From the very beginning, I felt understood. Anca showed remarkable empathy and insight. Together, we managed to set clear and achievable goals, which helped me make real progress. I gained clarity on my personal goals, such as building self-confidence.

    G, seasoned mom, Romania

My story

Why I Do This Work

Hi, I’m Anca.

When I became a mother, my world shifted in ways I wasn’t prepared for.

I had read about pregnancy and birth, about taking care of a new born, but no one had told me that becoming a mother is a transformation in itself.

I found myself questioning who I was, how my relationships had changed, and how to honour both the mother I was becoming and the woman I already was.

This personal journey, combined with my background in coaching and deep study of matrescence, led me here: helping women like you feel understood, supported, and empowered in motherhood.

Because motherhood is not a moment. It is a becoming.

You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need a space where you can be supported.

It’s a no-pressure, no-commitment way to explore how I can support you in this season of motherhood.

How I support you?

My coaching approach is

  • Every woman’s motherhood journey is unique. Together we focus on what matters to you.

  • I hold a compassionate space while helping you gain clarity on your needs, boundaries, and identity.

  • We explore real strategies you can use day-to-day, from self-care rituals to communication tools.

  • This isn’t about fixing you. You don’t need fixing. It’s about helping you reconnect with your strength and wisdom.

You’ll leave each session with more clarity, confidence, and practical tools to integrate into your daily life.

Motherhood doesn’t mean losing yourself. It means becoming more fully you.
Let’s walk this journey together.